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		<title>Phone Wars</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 10 Oct 2009 13:26:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>mmbanana</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[When you don&#8217;t answer the phone after an argument with your ex: beware!  He might get angry.  But at the rate my ex and I were going,   we are both already angry and quite over one another.   As I mentioned in my earlier post (Can&#8217;t reconcile your racism?), he called me the other morning, knowing [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=myaside.wordpress.com&blog=4056222&post=119&subd=myaside&ref=&feed=1" />]]></description>
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		<title>Can&#8217;t reconcile your racism?</title>
		<link>http://myaside.wordpress.com/2009/10/09/cant-reconcile-your-racism/</link>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 09 Oct 2009 13:13:24 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>mmbanana</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[The resounding question seems to be: But what has Obama done?
The question that I pose to him/everyone else: What will they LET him do!?<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=myaside.wordpress.com&blog=4056222&post=112&subd=myaside&ref=&feed=1" />]]></description>
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		<title>&#8220;Hi, I&#8217;m 5&#8242;6&#8243; and a black belt! &#8220;</title>
		<link>http://myaside.wordpress.com/2009/10/08/hi-im-56-and-a-black-belt/</link>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 09 Oct 2009 03:18:59 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>mmbanana</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[The facts of fraternizing and short guys trying to play God.<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=myaside.wordpress.com&blog=4056222&post=102&subd=myaside&ref=&feed=1" />]]></description>
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		<title>It&#8217;s hard not being easy.</title>
		<link>http://myaside.wordpress.com/2009/10/06/its-hard-not-being-easy/</link>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 06 Oct 2009 23:07:27 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>mmbanana</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[A facial on the second date?  Negative!<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=myaside.wordpress.com&blog=4056222&post=98&subd=myaside&ref=&feed=1" />]]></description>
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		<title>Because he&#8217;s just not that into you&#8230;</title>
		<link>http://myaside.wordpress.com/2009/06/08/because-hes-just-not-that-into-you/</link>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 08 Jun 2009 06:03:58 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>mmbanana</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[&#8230;but HOW can he not be?!
So tonight, Maria (this lady in my building whose sun goes to Johns Hopkins) hosted an NBA watch party for he and his friends and invited me.  I go.  It&#8217;s fun.  Hit it off with one of his friends.. talked forever.  Does he ask for my [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=myaside.wordpress.com&blog=4056222&post=95&subd=myaside&ref=&feed=1" />]]></description>
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		<title>Megga Bitch</title>
		<link>http://myaside.wordpress.com/2009/05/30/megga-bitch/</link>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 30 May 2009 18:59:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>mmbanana</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[So I recently took this Facebook quiz and I scored &#8216;Megga Bitch&#8217; on it.  The description was: &#8220;you chew people up and spit out the pieces you dont like!!.&#8221;  Which is true, to a certain extent.  Which is what leads to the fulcrum of this post..
I am a selfish, manipulative bitch.  [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=myaside.wordpress.com&blog=4056222&post=92&subd=myaside&ref=&feed=1" />]]></description>
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		<title>REVELATION(s) + Elmo</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 12 May 2009 22:38:59 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>mmbanana</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Yesterday was epic, to say the least.  As a matter of fact, this entire weekend was EPIC.
Here is the uber-abbreviated version:
1. Someone essentially tells Sister that he likes another girl too and has been spending time with her.
2.  She is disgusted and over him.
3. Today, Someone&#8217;s best friend, MD, tells us what happened.. [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=myaside.wordpress.com&blog=4056222&post=87&subd=myaside&ref=&feed=1" />]]></description>
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		<title>Uber-user</title>
		<link>http://myaside.wordpress.com/2009/05/09/uber-user/</link>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 10 May 2009 00:01:56 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>mmbanana</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[My mother once said: &#8220;You cannot use someone without being used.&#8221;
She was right and this is the first time I&#8217;ve ever had to seriously consider the nuance of said quote.  &#8220;Sister&#8221; and I were up until 4am last night on the phone talking about &#8220;Someone&#8221;.  He was texting her as we were talking [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=myaside.wordpress.com&blog=4056222&post=84&subd=myaside&ref=&feed=1" />]]></description>
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		<title>Mercurial Mercutio?</title>
		<link>http://myaside.wordpress.com/2009/05/08/mercurial-mercutio/</link>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 08 May 2009 18:49:54 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>mmbanana</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[No more Shakespeare?!
I inadvertently happened upon this link today while browsing for Young Alumni events (when I should be looking for a job!) and it made me sad.  Well, only marginally because a) I adore Shakespeare and fun venues such as the Shakespeare Tavern which really makes an effort to transport their audience and [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=myaside.wordpress.com&blog=4056222&post=83&subd=myaside&ref=&feed=1" />]]></description>
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		<title>Maybe I&#8217;m selfish.</title>
		<link>http://myaside.wordpress.com/2009/05/08/maybe-im-selfish/</link>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 08 May 2009 18:28:05 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>mmbanana</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[There really is no question about it: I can be very selfish at times.  Maybe it&#8217;s the only child syndrome, I don&#8217;t know, but I am suddenly overwhelmed with a sense of selfishness.  Remember the retail therapy post?  The $608 dress?  Well, it&#8217;s a heft price tag and I have other [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=myaside.wordpress.com&blog=4056222&post=81&subd=myaside&ref=&feed=1" />]]></description>
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